by contributing writer Kristen Webb
Joshua had to face Giants but the giants I face have fur. I am addicted to selling and buying horses.
I am not sure why it gives me such a rush but I love doing it. It started because I have a very limited budget and very high expectations of what I want in a horse. Now, looking back, I can see why I struggled so long without victory. Basically, even though I prayed about it, I never really believed God could answer. My prayers were more of a fierce desperate wishing followed by worry and scheming. I still felt like it was a huge long shot that I would ever find the horse I was looking for. Joshua acted in faith, listened to God’s voice, lived in partnership with God, and prayed with imagination. I did the complete opposite.
I was not kidding when I said this was a long road of mistakes. The first horse I bought was pretty but very stubborn so I sold him and tried to get another horse that was closer to my wishlist. But each horse I would get, after a little while, I would think that if I sold them I could trade up for something better. I did this in a frenzied fashion. I would look on kijiji and find something that was amazing that I just had to have. However I had to sell the horse I had first. I would list my horse and then wait – not very patiently – for it to sell. I would worry that the horse I had seen and wanted and really believed was the only horse for me would sell before my horse sold.
The horse I bought last year was the worst mistake of them all. She was more money than any of the others and she was only a one-year-old. She had a problem with bucking when you got on – like you were in a rodeo. I need a safe horse because I have already fallen on my head too many times and I can’t fall off again. This horse was my worst nightmare and the people I bought it from would not take it back. In the end I had to pretty much give it away.
At this point I recognized that I had a problem. I really wanted to stop the cycle and just find a horse that was safe and that I could keep for a long time. I prayed about this and for the first time I really gave it to God and stopped worrying and stressing about it. God did not have much to work with because I had no money left for my next horse as I had lost it all on the nightmare. God, being all powerful and all knowing, was not stressed by my request for a horse. In fact I think He was very relieved that I was finally giving it to Him. He started working on pulling the strings to bring me the right horse for me despite of myself.
There was a horse that I was boarding for someone who wanted their horse to be shipped out to her in BC at the end of summer. She was an older white mare and did not catch my attention because I’m usually drawn to the flashy, crazy horses. The owner decided that she was too old to ship such a long distance and decided to give her away to someone here. She asked me to try her out and then put an ad on kijijito find her a new home. I tried her out and she was seriously the best horse I had ever ridden! To think she had been in my backyard all summer! She was so safe and obedient that I could ride her with my daughter (who has Downs Syndrome) as well. I was enjoying riding when I was on her and it was peaceful and soothing.
I had some reservations however because she was older and not the prettiest horse I have ever seen and usually buying young and pretty is high on my priority list. But I asked God what He wanted me to do. He impressed upon me that safety and having a horse I can trust were the most important things. It was vain of me to only want good-looking horses that others would admire. Who cares if others think the horse that just bucked you off is good-looking! This time I was trying to live in partnership with God in regards to my horse search instead of going off on my own schemes.
Fear of getting the wrong horse again was at first overwhelming but as I wrestled with what horse to get I just keep praying and asking God to help. I did find that He eventually gave me freedom to act without fear right around the same time I finally got a hold of the idea that God administers all the resources of the land. Finding me a great horse was not a hard task for Him. Even helping me accept that what I originally wanted in a horse was not the best choice was not a hard task for Him either!
So instead of living in fear and making a hasty decision I trusted God to meet my needs and bring me a safe sane horse. It was pretty cool that He arranged for the horse that I was considering to not be available to anyone else until I made up my mind. I did not have to make a fast decision because no one else even knew she was available for free yet!
I have had her for 3 months now and I like her more every time I ride her. I am so thankful to God for ending my horse search and freeing me from my trading addiction. I do sometimes feel the same old urge to upgrade and get a better horse but then I apologize to God and thank Him for the great horse I do have. I ask Him to continue to help me be content with the horse He gave me and not be such a picky perfectionist.